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Post by Jennie on Oct 11, 2010 19:38:47 GMT -5
Heheheheee our special girl talk board. Story time
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Post by Rose Weasley on Oct 11, 2010 19:43:18 GMT -5
So much love for this boardddd. <3333 Can I not go first though? My story's a little bit depressing. x) Well, one of them is. The other one's happy.
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Post by Jennie on Oct 11, 2010 19:49:22 GMT -5
I'll go first!
So there's this guy. He's been my best friend for 4 years. I absolutely love him. People get mad at him a lot, he's kind of a jerk sometimes, but I'm able to see through that. A couple years ago, he dated my friend. It didn't really work out between them, and he's been a jerk to her ever since. They're using each other though, they make out all the time. I'm not supposed to know, but she told me. He doesn't know that I know.
So this whole time, he's been telling me he loves me, telling me how we're best friends and stuff, and it's like...dude, i KNOW you're still hooking up with her, so stop lying to me. He's still never told me about it, even though I've always known. Half the time he's a jerk to me. He'll say things to me to make me feel bad on purpose, like "i'm not your best friend, i hate you, im not gonna go to your party, why would i wanna hang out with you," stuff like that. And other times, he's super amazing and nice and we have such an amazing time together. He's in the same group of friends as me, although lately he's losing a lot of those best friends.
You would think that because of that, he'd see me as someone who he doesn't wanna lose, but apparently not. He plays me hot and cold because he thinks that I'll always forgive him, which is kinda true...I can't hold grudges for shit. But I'm SO sick of the way he treats me, so now I'm in a fight with him. I told him I couldn't deal with him anymore and he doesn't treat me right. He hasn't apologized, but he's been trying to make me feel guilty about it. Ughh he's just so frustrating!
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Post by Albus Potter on Oct 11, 2010 19:55:26 GMT -5
There's a limit on how much a girl can really take, and I think you're feeling the edge of the cliff. Or not, but that's just my perspective. I had to help out a friend once when she liked a jerk. xDD
I love listening to (reading) people rant. SO GO GIRLS GO !!
-cough-
I feel for you Jen....-sigh-
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Post by Briony Cauldwell on Oct 11, 2010 20:00:22 GMT -5
I'll go second x3
Once upon a time, there was a cute little 8th grade girl who had a crush on a fellow cast member in The Lion the Witch and the Wardrobe school play. Ironically, she was the witch and he was the lion. Anywhoosles, he asked her out and they went out for approximately three years, until the summer after her sophomore year. Unfortunately, things were not so sparkly and romantic, as he was manipulative and emotionally abusive and a cheater. She was very self pitying, but she never really told anyone about it because she realized how whiney she was because she wasn't willing to do anything about it. After a while she found out that he had been cheating on her, but she still didn't break up with him because this girl tends to be an idiot. After a while, he broke up with her for this other girl, playing Titanic in his car while he did so. She didn't say anything but went into her house afterwards and cried for three hours. She was heartbroken for a few months until she started going back to her old passion, roleplaying. On one of her several sites she met a boy who she really liked. They seemed to have much more in common than her and the old boy. They have now been dating for three months, the old boy is still spreading rumors about the girl but she's too scared of confrontation to do anything about it, but she's happy with her life anyway.
Ps. The girl is me. x3
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Post by Jennie on Oct 11, 2010 20:00:54 GMT -5
I'm definitely at the cliff right now. He asked me if we were just not gonna be friends anymore, and I'm like..."well, this is about how you treat me. So I guess that's to to you."
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Post by Rose Weasley on Oct 11, 2010 20:01:19 GMT -5
Ohhh Jen. <3 From experience, you have to stay strong. But at the heart, I can tell you, I've been where you are and it's awful.
But really, your girl friend totally sucks. That's just not something you do...especially because she knew you liked him, right? You should tell her that that wasn't cool (easier said than done). Don't let him walk all over you! You are woman, HEAR YOU ROAR. ...haha, all right, that was awkward. But don't let him play up the guilt factor. Never ends well. I'm up next...?
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Post by Jennie on Oct 11, 2010 20:04:13 GMT -5
My girl friend knows, but I don't really mind it because it's not like they like each other. They're just bored and horny xD It only bothers me that HE didn't tell me. I'm glad she did. Miss: No one deserves to be cheated on, and I'm really happy for you that you're with a guy who treats you right I think it's so rare for two teenagers to actually be really happy in a relationship, so you're really lucky
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Post by Rose Weasley on Oct 11, 2010 20:08:41 GMT -5
Awww, Miss! <3 My story starts with a young and innocent ninth grader. She's a hopeless romantic with a terrible tendency to crush heavily on her guy friends. On the first day of school, she takes the train home with a ridiculously hot guy in her grade, who just got dumped by his girlfriend (who, I might add, was 3 years older than he). The girl consoled him, and for the next two months, they talked every day and every night nonstop, telling each other basically every secret about each other. But the girl was a dummy and...(this is hard to say) fell in love with him. Hard. She wasn't apparently very subtle in making her crush clear, but he didn't know. But then, for the holidays, she made him this (amazing) mixtape that she spent days on which had subtle hints of her crush. He missed the point, and confessed to her an undying love for her slutty best friend. Heartbroken, she ignored him for winter break. After that, they reconciled. Then, in April, she made the insanely big mistake of asking him if he liked her. He said no. A few weeks passed, and this insanely stupid girl was talking to her very very very slutty cousin. She mentioned the boy's name, and the slut cousin found him, friended him on Facebook, and told him that the girl was still crushing on him. Boy freaks and spreads rumors about girl's insanity throughout school. School makes girl into social leper. Summer comes, and girl decides to hook up with her second best guy friend (to help her forget about the first guy), who at the time, had a significant other (that she didn't know about). Other girl doesn't know. So, yeah, I'm the girl, and god do I hate that guy.
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Post by Jennie on Oct 11, 2010 20:14:58 GMT -5
Guys are dumb, they always go for the sluts. And you're so much better than that <3
And as for the other guy friend...it's not your fault that you didn't know about his significant other! It's his own fault for not telling you. And it was wrong of your cousin to do that...obviously that didn't help your sitution =(
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Post by Briony Cauldwell on Oct 11, 2010 20:17:06 GMT -5
Awwww sweetheart <3 Guys are dumb.
And I'm sure your mixtape was wonderful.
...I'm funny. Anyway, yea, I'm sure more people love you than you think, don't think the world is over because it's not. You will find someone else who isn't a douche canoe, it just takes a little heartbreak first sometimes.
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Post by Rose Weasley on Oct 11, 2010 20:17:37 GMT -5
My cousin is a terrible and awful person...and I probably shouldn't have told her anything in thr first place, but we spend a lot of time together. I dunno, I feel guilty for the other girl, but I feel like she'll never know, so I guess it's okay. It was totally meaningless anyway.
OH I FORGOT THE BEST PART: So the first guy's best friend calls the girl mid-summer to tell her that the guy hooked up with a twelve year old. They're now dating. Yes, a 12 year old & a 15 year old. Ew.
& I did love that mixtape. ^^ But I deleted it off my iTunes in a fit of rage.
He's stupid, but I feel like this was all my fault. =/
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Post by Jennie on Oct 11, 2010 20:18:28 GMT -5
12 year old? That is just WRONG. Ew. That should be like, illegal.
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Post by Rose Weasley on Oct 11, 2010 20:19:57 GMT -5
I think it is. x))) But I can't prove that.
His friend was like, "Oh they went to third...apparently it wasn't her first time." (He said that my guy described this 12 year old as a professional pole dancer in training.)
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Post by Briony Cauldwell on Oct 11, 2010 20:21:46 GMT -5
Ahahahaa. That just makes me giggle.
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Post by Jennie on Oct 11, 2010 20:22:04 GMT -5
Ohhh my freaking god. Third? A 12 year old? That's so wrong. I mean I'm about to be 16 and I'll admit I've never even been to third...second, yes, third, noooooo way...12 years old?! wtf
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Post by Briony Cauldwell on Oct 11, 2010 20:23:43 GMT -5
x3 I'm not even admitting how far I've gone, but I feel like I'm 16 so it's alright. Twelve is just funny. She's obviously just catering to pedophiliacs' urges.
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Post by Rose Weasley on Oct 11, 2010 20:23:47 GMT -5
It's really funny. x) Or at least, it would be if it wasn't so disturbing.
I'm actually the prude of my grade. The vast majority of them have been to third/home. I've been to second...and really, that's about my limit. x)
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Post by Jennie on Oct 11, 2010 20:25:44 GMT -5
Seriously guys it's okay, SOOO many girls at my school have sex with all these different guys all the time, it's horrible. First or second is totally nothing to worry about, I mean, it's a good thing. Self control, knowing our limits, etc.
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Post by Rose Weasley on Oct 11, 2010 20:27:13 GMT -5
Honestly, I'd go further if there was a guy in my life that I trusted enough not to disappear the next day. =(
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